Step Five. Where we in addiction recovery trust ourselves, our Higher Power and another person with our deepest secrets - so we may live a happy, sober life! 

Step 4: Where a lot of people in 12 Step recovery get stuck. We have to face who we really are to get well. 

Step 3: Whatever our concept of God or a a Higher Power -  a good starting point may be that Step 3 might do nothing more than reveal that we are not all powerful over our addictions and we need - and we seek - help and guidance on the road to recovery.